Copiii vor iubire

O mama isi tine la brat copilul de vreo 20 de ani si se indrapta cu el spre tobogan. Ii sterge gura cu o batista, ii indeasa caciula pe frunte, ii zimbeste si il lasa sa urce in constructia pentru copii de 5-7 ani. Are pe chip o durere resemnata… Ma priveste de parca isi cere scuze pentru copilul dement… Ii intorc un zimbet care imi iese trist… El sare necontenit, pare a fi cel mai fericit din tot parculetul, ii striga intr-un limbaj neinteles ceva si aleagra… Pina sa il ajunga mama, el si-a umplut gura si ochii cu nisip. Tipa, se agita, o loveste la incercarile ei de a-l ajuta. Ea primeste loviturile ca pe o pedeapsa meritata, fara sa ridice vocea macar.

Privesc scena cu alte mame, care bareaza aflarea copiilor lor de portiunea cu nisip. As vrea sa o pot ajuta, dar nu am nici cea mai mica idee cu ce. Mamele o privesc dezaprobator si, simt ca i-ar striga ceva daca ar avea mai mult curaj. Ea nici macar nu isi intoarce privire. Cu o dragoste imposibila reuseste sa il prinda in brate si sa ii repete necontenit “e bine, e bine, mama e aici”…

Dupa plecarea lor inca mult timp i s-au adus critici: “e un pericol”, “de ce sa nu isi tina nebunul acasa?”, “de ce nu e internat acolo unde ii e locul?”. Nu stiu cite dintre ele si-ar fi internat copilul in ospiciu sau cite l-ar fi incuiat in casa pentru tot restul vietii, dar inteleg ca pentru aceasta mama copilul ei e la fel de copil… Inteleg ca dinsa si-a ajustat Universul dupa cerintele lui… Inteleg ca ea are de oferit mai mult decit putinele minute de dupa serviciu impartite, cu furie, printre telefon si amestecat in cratita… Inteleg ca ea apreciaza altfel o zi (daca aceasta exista) in care copilul ii pare mai sanatos… Inteleg ca rugaciunile ei sunt mai fierbinti si dorintele legate doar de el.

In aceeasi zi, poate in acelas moment, undeva in lume cineva isi lasa copilul nounascut in maternitate iar altcineva il arunca, viu inca, in cel mai apropiat tomberon… In aceeasi zi un copil e dus de urgenta la spital in urma bataii unui tata beat, iar un altul isi pierde viata intr-un incendiu impreuna cu mama alcoolica. In aceeasi zi un copil asteapta ore in sir, pe bancheta din spate a masinii, ca sa isi revina parintii din “fericirea drogurilor”, iar o fetita de 5 ani este violata de tatal vitreg…

Doamne, de ce nu le daruiesti tuturor parintilor dragostea femeii cu copil dement?

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